Sunday, October 2, 2011

its a thing..

Girls,
if a guy ask you out,
there should be 2 answers to it.

1) Give him a chance.
Its clear that he likes you. So, why not give him a chance, go out with him. Who knows, u might like him too.
It takes a whole lot of courage to ask a girl out, if one step forward to do so, i believe he'll be nice to you. " It doesnt hurt to try." But, in this case, it hurts to try every single time. So, if he's willing to risk his heart for you, why not you? Why is it the man always have to work harder? If you want it to work it out, we should work together. Humans are the best being on earth, but mistakes arent avoidable. Thats why we help each other.
(if he has a bad reputation, maybe u could delay the date's date, do some background and history check first. You dont want to be his 15th girlfriend this year, and its only june. So turn him down(which is answer #2) )

2) Gently turn him down.
Maybe you likes somebody else, so turn him down nicely. Dont flirt/joke by any means. Guys might get the wrong signal. If you dont want him, make it clear but cool. Awful rejections may make the guy pissed off and soon take revenge( immature guys do this, and so does matured guys who is really pissed off). If you reject him nicely, he'll accept it and hopefully move on. Maybe he wouldnt move on that quickly, a couple more tries perhaps. Just make sure you dont give him hopes if you really dont wanna be with him.

3) there's a third answer???
Avoid coupling. Build your love after you are married. (Bercintalah selepas kahwin)
i hope i will too one day :) A relationship before marriage lures too many sins.

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